Psychology says, living in the past causes depression. Living and/or thinking too far into the future causes anxiety.

Stop. 

Plz. 

Happy birthday Liz...

RIP ❤️

Her style & beauty was truly iconic. 

Only you
can make this world seem right
Only you
can make the darkness bright
Only you and you alone
can thrill me like you do
and fill my heart with love for only you

Only you
can make this change in me
For it's true
you are my destiny
When you hold my hand, I understand
the magic that you do
You're my dream come true
my one and only you, only you

Only you and you alone
can thrill me like you do
and fill my heart with love for only you

Only you
can make this change in me
For it's true
you are my destiny
When you hold my hand, i understand
the magic that you do do
You're my dream come true
my one my one my one and only you. 

It's so sad how society pushes us to self-loathing. 

Unless yours a size 6 or 0 you are made to feel fat or 'plus sized'. They don't even make clothes for girls with curves & you end up feeling huge when you go shopping & not good when you have to buy everything three sizes up to fit your curves & have it baggy but fitted in some areas making you look even huge & often shapeless. 

Females have hips, females have breasts & females have bums... It's about time the industry embraced those things about us, acknowledged we are all different & catered to that. Most of these clothes are made to fit hangers, not real women. We shouldn't have to feel ashamed about our bodies yet nearly all of us do. We know it's wrong to think we're fat & ugly but we can't help it... The media has already dictated to is what perfection is. Clothing has already shown us what our bodies should ideally be like and magazines have already defined to us what makes us look beautiful physically. 

Balmain ❤️

Feed your soul's dream...

There is no fear in love;
but perfect Love casts out fear
because fear involves torment.
But he who fears
has not been made
perfect in Love.

1 John 4:18

"When you're feeling pressure from a number of fronts--pulled this way and that by the demands of modern life--it's very easy to succumb to a false sense of urgency, feel out of balance and fragmented, and be in a constant state of tension. You can become forgetful and have difficulty sleeping. You may even attempt to stabilize and center yourself by resorting to the use of substances or activities, hoping they'll make you feel more at home in your own skin. Meanwhile, your mind rushes ahead from one thing to the next, while your body tries to play catch-up. The technological web consisting of computers, faxes and television--plus the noises all around--creates a constant assault on your senses. Exhausting isn't it?

First, recognize most things that you treat as emergencies or crises are merely inconveniences. Then slow down! Move a little bit slower than your'e accustomed to, and practice breathing slower and deeper every opportunity you get. This in itself helps you align with your internal rhythms, rather than being in a state of continuous reactivity to outside forces. Spend time in Nature and take off your shoes and socks. Putting your bare feet on the ground allows you to only experience your solid connection to the Earth. When you do, notice the difference in how you feel, and see if your mid isn't at least a bit calmer. It may be challenging at times to do any of this, but it can be done. It just takes your clear intention and willingness."

-Steven Farmer

Don't fall victim to limerence... In the words of Bob Marley, 'emancipate yourself from mental slavery'. 

This destructive pattern is so simply conquered!

There's a good article on it HERE I'd recommend you read, it even has how to get over it which I hope will be helpful to someone out here as it's an incredibly destructive thing to suffer with, but at least now you know it has a name & you CAN do something about it & you can change your life- and you totally should.

Dreams are amazing, but nothing quite beats living the dream you've made for yourself...


-Dalanda x

“A person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it” 

- Jean de La Fontaine.

Bunk buddies!! :-)

Somewhere, someone is looking for someone exactly like you.

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

“Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it” 

- Salvador Dalí

MULBERRY! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Mulberry handbags and clothing are just. Ahhh❤️

Whenever my friend and I see them we're like ahhh *_* xD

"Overthinking killed my happiness. Insecurities killed my self-esteem. 

Lies killed my trust."

Your cruel mind robs me of sleep...

"Just because someone desires you, does not mean they value you"

Saw this today on my tl, it's so true. People can desire you but not make any effort, not treat you how you deserve to be treated or mess you around. 

That's not right. They should never do that... people should make the effort to show you how amazing you are and make you feel good. Yes I use the word show because words mean nothing nowadays... Too often, words are misused, wasted or remain unsaid. Sincerity has been eroded... :-(

You've got to go the extra mile or TRY. If you care enough and if they matter enough to you that should be no problem. 

Act in the best interests of each other NOT just yourself and don't keep everything inside... 

If you're going to do something drastic, at least make it a mutual agreement so one isn't left in the dark or wondering, constantly questioning. That's an awful thing to do to someone. 

People in general should uplift you, and help you feel happier & more you- more confident. Not damage your self esteem which is what happens when you're treated badly or not appreciated and shown you're treasured or left pining. 

People often underestimate the destructive nature of emotions and you must NEVER mess with someones emotions for whatever reasons... Ever. The damage it causes could create problems that can take years to fix or more often than not never truly go away. You could destroy someone, just completely break them down like that. It sounds dramatic but it's true, I see it everyday. Look closely maybe you can see it too, in someone's eyes, in how people move, in the mirror.

Don't do it to someone, especially if it's someone you love, you don't upset or be dishonest to someone if you love someone it's hurtful & disrespectful. 

And don't stand for it either.

If you see or experience it, draw a line! 

...

Women are considered fragile, but I’ve never seen anything as easily wounded as a man's ego...

Neuschwanstein Castle, Germany

That awkward moment when..

You catch someone with your phone taking selfies. 

#CaughtRedHanded

Sunrise...

The wind loves to cockblock my pictures. 

“It is sometimes an appropriate response to reality to go insane”

 - Philip K. Dick.

This still makes me laugh! XD

We decided to take the mick & be joke emotive & serenade each other this weekend.

Not enough space for the whole video but here's some parts.

I sound like a dying cat, but the actions kill me maybe you can laugh with me too. xD

PART 1

PART 2


They should totes cast us in an opera now HAHA!!

Serious craving right now. 

 “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure”

 - Paulo Coelho.

“You can never be overdressed or overeducated”

 - Oscar Wilde.

“We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be”

- Kurt Vonnegut.

Not the cheese!!!

Seriously.  

Sometimes, the only reason why you won't let go of what's making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.

Maybe.... Chase the happiness?

Eddie Rabbit

You can't run from love