God, yes Jeff Brown, yes. Read it & read it again. 

It's so hard, life. We all have our problems & hurdles. But the beauty is that we can revel in it, embrace it & acknowledge it as part of what makes us who we are today. 

We also need to embrace the truth and stop hiding from ourselves & others. Unexpressed feelings both positive & negative are just poison to the soul. The soul of yourself & the ones that need & deserve your truth, it's not fair to hide it. Express yourself with love, they can take it so let them. You are not a burden & you owe it to yourself & others to be truthful. For the sake of happiness & more importantly peace. 

Most people are so confused, afraid and lost because of their feelings, but all you need to do is be honest about them. Write them down if you need to arrange it, then share them with whoever you feel needs to hear it. Face to face, calls, letters, show real effort, respect & heart. Don't push it down. Don't break yourself. Don't break others. Don't repress your emotions.  Don't hold back. It's that simple (don't laugh, it is quite simple if you'd only stop psyching yourself up with far fetched scenarios of things going terribly wrong because you were honest & making a habit of internalising everything). Opening up & being honest about your feelings is liberating so don't be scared. Be excited to have a taste of freedom, free yourself from your cage that you've built around yourself & your heart instead & who knows... Maybe you'll end up with great people to share that freedom with too! ;-)

You'll only lose if you hold back. 

The broken ones hold the most strength & my dear, we're all a little bit fucked. So take your strengths & your lessons and you own them. 

-Deedee 

Xxx

PS- I've got an essay due in tomorrow that I need to work on... Good vibes would appreciated!

I hate that I always leave things...

Life is too short for fake friends, fake love, and fake energy. 

Do not use people.

Emotionally, sexually, financially, socially, professionally, creatively or just suck up their energies when the time only works for you.

Too many people go through these things.

If you are the use-r, just know you are at the bottom of the pyramid. 

Don't pull others into how lost you are.

Live genuinely.

-Dalanda

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You gotta stimulate her mind. Be honest, be kind and make her feel good. Treat her like a queen because she's your queen, you're her king, her knight and protector. Don't ever waste an opportunity to to let her know how you feel about her because life is fleeting & so every moment should be enjoyed as much as possible. Don't be scared. Make life beautiful & perfect... Like a dream :-)

These stunning photos are by Alexander Harding... I swear, it's like he's captured stills from my most vivid dreams. Beautiful. 

Today, like always be bold, be brave & be beautiful. Don't deprive us of your love, we need it. :-) the world needs LOVE! 

I love you dearly. Sincerely. I promise. 

-Dalanda

xoxoxo 

Sent with love, appreciation, gratitude, warmth, strength and a whole lot of healing. Close your eyes and bask in the love. Love will stick you back together if your broken, promise. Start with loving and accepting yourself first, then you will only do what's best for you. 

:-)

Jeff Brown

I've recently discovered Jeff, and he's already one of my favourite thinkers. 

Often people are confused on the concept of soulmates, lessons and everything in between, because as with everything in life it's just not very clear cut (Hollywood doesn't help much either). Often people hold on to the wrong bonds instead of learning their lessons, letting go and perusing the real ties because karmic or otherwise, the deep connection between some that you may need to let go of remains till you cut off and it can manifest itself in this world, and in our minds in many forms. Unfortunately, the more you as a soul are with someone that you shouldn't still be with the more it becomes negative, destructive and intrusive in your day-to-day life and thinking. 

Paradoxically, the bond gets deeper and harder to let go of because obviously the more you are with someone, the more you know them, become familiar with them and so deepen your tie that should really been severed but has now become so hard to let go of. I guess in life we have to keep learning and growing and nothing is easy, but earth is like a school and some lessons hurt more than others- particularly those that involve letting go... but I guess one just has to step back, analyse the damage and realise it's not worth it. It's not worth your sanity, and it's certainly not worth losing out on something real that you can have with true people that fall into your path to make you grow and happy. Don't get me wrong, these fate mates etc, they will make you grow, but only once you get rid of them as when you do, you'll realise how much they in fact just stunted your growth as a soul and human being and drove you somewhat crazy, almost like you're stuck in this vicious cycle where the high is never really worth the pain but you don't realise and the only real benefits are from letting go. It seems really hard but you have a lot of strength and are supported more than you realise and once you are free, you can then make room for the right and best connections for you that will make you happy and help, support, encourage and not drain you or drive you crazy at the same time. Unfortunately not every seemingly good bond is meant to last forever, and the sooner you realise this and find the strength to know when the right time to say goodbye is, the sooner you'll be happy. Love, friendship, any kind of connection should never leave you feeling empty and lost. You should feel uplifted after being with someone, period.  When it's time to close the door I think it's something that you as a soul will realise, you know when it's real and you know when it's time for it to be over but it's whether you choose to acknowledge it, or switch off your gut and continue to be led by the ego... 

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I've only discovered this guy yesterday, but I'm impressed, I think I might buy his books to read over the summer holidays...

Also, I really like what he had to say about the tragic plane crash, I completely agree and he even talked about masks, him and I are totally on the same wavelength and due to this synchronicity I feel like I was definitely meant to post stuff from him....

I'm sure this is useful to all of you in some way, if it's not useful now it will be. Ideally, I hope that these things I have shared with you are merely confirmation of what you already know and practice in your life so you can be like yes, I am doing the right thing! Because the best thing for you as a human and as a soul is by no means ever always the easiest and we all struggle with making decisions that may effect us negatively before we see the benefits but it's like taking a hike up a steep hill or mountains: you'll start but some of the way through, you might take a break or give up, you may have even spent weeks, months... Years of your life, hiding, taking rest in the caves, not wanting to climb, going back at it again, only to slip and fall back into those deep but comfortable hiding places, avoiding the steep climb, cold wind on your face and sweat on your back but when you get the courage, the willpower and the determination and you finally reach the top... My God, what a view. 

Take care, be strong & don't be stupid. Pls. Srsly. 

Lots of love,

- Dalanda :-)

xoxoxo