Don't leave people you were once there for. Don't be there talking to them all nice one day, then the next be gone. Don't dessert people because when they need you most you won't be there. If you TRULY cared about someone you'd be there for them no matter what and if you don't care, don't make out like you do cause it just leads to people getting hurt. Nothing is more painful than being left by someone you liked or cared for, espescially when you thought the feeling was mutual because when they go it leaves you with nothing. Nothing but confusion, pain and memories of the good times... Which makes it worse because you end up either looking back and really missing those good times and realising it may never be that way again, or spending those times wondering where it all went wrong and what you did.
There's nothing worse than feeling alone and having the people that are meant to give you the most support just dropping like flies, and yeah it's awful but I guess it teaches independence, and it teaches you that you shouldn't rely or trust people because they behave like this. At the same time it makes you defensive, it gives you low self esteem, it makes you scared and reluctant to open your heart to anyone else and it leaves you broken. Maybe yes, you can still manage to open up again, make friends again or trust family members again or whoever the relationship may have been with, but it doesn't mean you'll never hurt again for that reason, it doesn't mean that the scars from what once was won't still remain and you won't still be broken.
If you're going to leave, at least give your reasons, if you're going to leave emotionally but still be there then there's no point, just go, it hurts more to watch you slip away.
You can't just suddenly slip out of someone's life and expect them not to care or notice anything. It simply doesn't work like that. It is NOT the case ever.
-Dalanda xxx
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