Exactly. I 100% agree with this. When you're ignored or he doesn't make a proper effort to speak with you or reply to your messages, then it means his love isn't strong enough because if it was, he'd make the time and he wouldn't bear to watch you slip right through his hands... only a fool who wanted to be alone would let you pass by. He'd do something, or he'd have at least made the effort to begin with. And yes, I've seen (a few too many) cases where a guy has liked a girl, she liked him and he did nothing. It's shocking,cause if they're the one for you, that will never change, no matter who you date or sleep with. And I think you'd realise that when you realise you don't really love anyone else, and everyone else kind of pales her in comparison and you think of her everyday. But some people still let whatever trivial emotion cloud their judgment, or they over think and create non existent problems and doubts not realising that they're in essence securing their unhappiness by ignoring their heart.  

Ladies, you deserve better than someone that isn't crazy about you & not giving you the attention you deserve. No, you can't shut off your emotions or stop yourself from loving him, but try not to let it rule you or drive you insane. These things can make you feel like there's something wrong with you, or it's your fault or you've said/dome something wrong but don't let these negative thoughts rule you. Being heartbroken won't give him the balls to act like a man and peruse his feelings for you so it's fruitless. 

Men, women are hurt by actions like ignoring her or not giving her any or proper attention etc (I don't think anyone likes being ignored at all actually, especially with no excuses. Though, the most commonly used "I'm busy" bullshit is incredibly stupid. It will not take you very long to send a reply to a message at all. A text takes all of a few seconds to reply to and if you liked and wanted someone that much, you'd make the effort and sacrifice, how can one not make time for love?) mixed messages aren't cool. Ya know, it doesn't even ultimately boil down to you having to dote over her or having to treat her like a queen and me being pissed that you won't send her beautiful poetry or elegant prose. No. It boils down to respect. Ignoring her (and anyone for that matter) or doing nothing when you like her is just straight up disrespectful, mean and soul destroying for her- and yourself. How would you feel if it was you? If it was you that really liked someone and they liked you too but they wouldn't give you the time of day and you had to watch the love go down the drain... And for what? Imagine the sheer frustration that would cause. I'm not sure how you cope either with the constant hoping she doesn't go to someone else cause you love her and you want to be with her, the constant checking up on her sneakily like social network stalking to find out what's going on with her (almost like you're Mr Brightside) and trying find out about her character etc, instead of you just to talk to her and find out firsthand what she's really like as opposed to how she portrays herself to a group of people or on a certain platform. There are several layers to any human being and several aspects to one's character. 

People fail to realise, when they throw love away or ignore those loving emotions they feel for someone without sharing them, they could be throwing the rest of their lives away too. They may well be throwing their future marriage partner, family, mother to their child, companion, best friend, other half and soulmate away- not to mention their opportunity to be a part of that, and that means nothing to them? Or it doesn't make them compelled to act or do something that could change the course of their life for the better? 

More fool you, sir. More fool you...

-Dalanda