- Sarah Dessen
Be self-reliant...
People who are meant to be in your life don't always stay or help you. In fact sometimes the one's you want the most don't.
You come into this world alone, you die alone & you've got to know how to make it alone. Constantly needing the approval of other people or things is really stupid (yeah, I don't really believe in tact) & deterimental to your mental and spiritual growth as a human being. After all, we are here to learn things, overcome barriers & enjoy.
You do yourself a monumental disservice if you ignore what's in your heart & are swayed by others to do things against what your heart has originally told you or what you've felt. - note that people can manipulate you to their agenda in a 'loving' manner so if you don't look past your co-dependent ways, or need to feel/be accepted, you won't even realise you're being manipulated or pushed from what is best for you. This happens all too often, particularly in 'friendships' where one has things to gain from the other & they'll often talk you into non-beneficial choices or solutions so you're more vulnerable and you stay latched on to them, or you're near them so they can continue to be a leech & pour pestilence in your ear (Sorry, I love a good Shakespeare reference :-D).
Be strong enough to walk out, make it on your own & find true happiness... away from this façade you've created.
If you feel lonely or unfufilled but you still have friends or family, it's because you've been ignoring your heart & what YOU want or in fact need/are destined to have in your life to be happy. You've let stupid, irrelevant people or things get in the way of your true happiness. Or maybe you yourself are that thing that's making you sad because you know what'll make you happy & what your heart & gut guides you to do but your enemies, those dark forces that aren't truly a part of you but you've let take a seat in your mind throw shitloads of doubt & crazy reasons for you to not follow your happiness. Which are 110% wrong & irrational btw.
Proper happiness, something that makes you smile from the heart. Not something temporary that you think will keep you busy or take your mind off of the emptiness & sadness you feel because you haven't followed your heart.
When one doesn't follow their heart there is always a regret &/or yearning or possible obsession or fear for that which they have missed out on. I strongly feel that in reading this, if you aren't truly happy, if you've gone against what your heart has told you, then an issue will have come to mind when reading this and you'll begin to be sad, confused and/or regretful that you feel you can't possibly follow your happiness or you're just too late.
Bull. Shit.
Or as my friend Kyle would say, bullfuckinghorseshit.
Like nooooooooooo.
God isn't stupid. Or if you don't believe in God/the creator energy, know life doesnt work like that.
You'll never ever EVER have your happiness set as something unobtainable. EVER. I promise you, and so has He. The only challenge in it is going out to get or pursue what makes you happy, trusting, not being scared and not worrying about all the faults & things you've picked out that could go wrong in this.
What is so wrong in making yourself happy or at least trying? The cons aren't really cons you're always supported and you're here to fight your fears, say fuck it and get what catches your heart. YOU, regardless of what others say to put you off if you feel it in your hear, in your stomach.., that pull, that burn, that ache... Then why the fuck haven't you made concrete steps and gone after it.
Let this be a sign to you. Go after whatever has popped into your mind TODAY. Don't freak out, don't think what if, just be spontaneous & do it!!
I bet by the end of this month or sooner you'll be a happier person.
Imagine how happy and content you'll be with that thing you've always wanted and thought about a lot? Imagine how it will feel to know you don't have to worry, or fight anymore for it or to be happy. It will be so sweet. And happiness is contagious, when you find it, those that are around you will see and the people that know you best will be so happy for you and glad to finally see you with what you wish for.
Happiness, love, laughter & all those good things are healing to us and the world and we must always seek to follow it & never let the darkness rob us of the light we are meant to shine & to be.
Follow your dreams, the real one. The one dwelling in your heart & subsequently your mind, body & soul.
Complete yourself. Don't let anyone tl you not to go after whatever it is you want, no matter what!!
Lots of love, blessings, light & courage,
-Dalanda
-AA's
-AM's
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