This is why I don't chase people. If they want me in their life they'll tell me, Make it clear & talk to me. If not... I'll know that they don't and I'm not going to run after anyone. Simple. Especially if they only want to communicate when it's convenient for them or they're someone that keeps running away until they decide they want to get in contact and I'm supposed to jump through hoops? Like, lol you can just forget about it. 

 It's a promise a made myself long ago & it's one of the best decisions I've ever stuck to. I've weeded out a lot of crap and unnecessary hurt & confusion that way. 

People need to be more upfront. Playing games is stupid & so is dishonesty. 

Try it. Try not chasing the people that never make an effort to chase you. And try appreciating the ones that do instead of pushing them away. Life will be a lot better & relations with people more rewarding. It's always good to know where you stand.