Mario

TP OK Jazz with Franco Luambo Makiadi

Seeing as it's a leap day, I thought I'd introduce you to something new... Some 80's African jazz which I learnt of from my father. My father has definitely gave me an appreciation for good sound (quality and music-wise) from a very young age, for which I'm incredibly grateful. 

I can't give you the full translation, but to brief you: the chorus 'Mario Nalembi...' Means Mario, I'm tired (as in tired of your shit). The original is 15 minutes because as you can see from this recording, they stop after every verse/ chorus to talk about how hopeless Mario is. Shoutout to them for naming, and shaming xD no fucks given, and I quite like it. I hope you do too, and if not you can at least appreciate the song. The lyrics aren't always necessarily a major part, and I find the language of insult to be fairly universal.

I wonder if Mario ever sorted his shit out... But anyways, I guess that's not so relevant anymore.  

Have a good week!

-Dalanda 

:-) 

Sunday blessings

I'm confused as to why nones parents returned the blessings... But anyways, kudos to the child at thirty seconds!

And here's a lovely inspirational quote that I believe should be taken on by all of mankind. 

Happy Sunday! ^_^

-Dalanda 

Best thing I never had

Queen B ❤️

Haunted

Evanescence 

How stress affects your body

Sharon Horesh Bergquist

Omg. 

Don't let their character assassinations, or what you think they want to see turn you away from your true self and into everything people want you to be (which needless to say is usually worse, more miserable and less than you could be). 

Those that play on your insecurities, or tell you you aren't good enough are just projecting their own insecurities. They are threatened that you may become as happy and successful as they are too afraid to dream of because they've decided to go along the route of pessimism. 

People with those kinds of negative behaviours and thought patterns never go far in life, and if they do they are miserable, bored or deeply unsatisfied inside. This is because they're not doing what they truly want in and so their life doesn't enthuse them, or make them happy. They consciously or not don't give things their all which results in shoddy work. 

All the best things in life are inspired by passion, or a love for something that moves you- which could be anything or several things (and I don't mean things in the material sense, because that's superficial, fleeting happiness that lasts until your next impulse buy, etc etc.)

Share your light, instead of stifling it to please others, or the part of your soul that you want to please instead of what has been sold to you. At the end of the day (as I've said before), you live with the consequences of the actions you make good, or bad.

 It only makes sense to make positive choices because who doesn't want to be happy? A good heart attracts good people and experiences into your life, but also people that will try to steal your light because they were too scared to create their own. 

 Know, understand and act once you accordingly because deep inside, you know the difference. Don't make the mistake of allowing toxic, draining people into your life that only care about what you can do for them- don't be afraid to cut them off with forgiveness in your heart and no apology. 

You should be supported, loved and appreciated by the people in your life. If you feel as though you need to change yourself or put on a show, you're not truly happy and comfortable and that means some things need to change inside and around you. 

Time is really precious and limited so you should spend your time with people that inspire you, and help you grow- not people who are immature, users, selfish, *insert other shitty attributes here*. 

Not everyone is your friend in life. For some time until you get your feet back, you may be your only friend but that's okay. We are always supported in ways that we can't see- believe in your own magic. 

Be safe,

-Dalanda

xoxo

Resting unimpressed face

This goats cheese, pesto, and vegetable pasta was so yummy, I had to take a picture! I am still full :-0 

I ate most of it, and a small portion of fries with Parmesan, herbs and truffle oil (which was also very tasty) 

I wish you all a blessed week filled with 

smiles, light and laughter.

-Dalanda 

xoxo 

Happy Valentine's Day!

When you give very clear instructions, and they're ignored- to your detriment.

Me rn. 

Spotted at the bus-stop

Amen. More often than not-particularly if you like to keep your hands clean, when people shun you for no reason or are arseholes to you, it's just because. Well, it's how they've decided to be-even if someone upsets you it doesn't mean you need to go ruin their day or make them feel bad. How you treat others is always a choice no matter what. I don't think there's ever a reason to be horrible, if someone has hurt you, tell them and be honest. If it comes across as insulting maybe it's because their actions were and they struggle to hear about it, or you need to be a bit more tactful. 

You can forgive, tolerate and teach someone that doesn't understand any better, but silence is an indicator of guilt. And if one knows they've wronged you, or are just ignoring you in general there's something wrong. However if you've done your bit by being kind, and doing the right thing- whatever that may be then that's all you can do.

 Remember when people treat you badly it's reflective of themselves and not you; so although it's hard, try not to take it personally. You can only truly change the behaviour of yourself because you are the only one that can truly know your heart- providing you've sat down and listened to it or given it a chance to speak to you. 

Others will change when they're willing to make an effort for themselves, and those who suffer under their poor behaviour. This change isn't something you can cry or make into existence for anyone but yourself. 

So, if someone is horrible use it as an example of how you do not want to be, or leave people feeling instead of being sad that they're horrible. Lead by example because words are seldom enough and two wrongs don't make a right. 

Have a lovely weekend! ^^ 

-Dalanda

xoxo

How Could You

Speaker Knockerz 

PSA

Your eyebrows do not need an introduction like that. Of course you can have your eyebrows however you want, but if you're going for a natural look just remember that eyebrows don't grow in extreme ombré. And the concealer that is five shades lighter than your skin, to highlight said eyebrows that look like they were drawn on with a sharpie isn't very subtle either...

It's kinda distracting when I see bad eyebrows- let me explain because a lot of people laugh at how much bad eyebrows bother me (and how satisfied I get over nice eyebrows). 

I've found people get really uncomfortable when I make direct eye contact with them, and I've no idea why because I don't ask. People usually look away or get shifty and it then makes me uncomfortable so I don't wanna be like- 'hey, look at me!'. I was having a conversation with someone last week, and they looked me in the eye once then looked away past my shoulder for the rest of the conversation xD. I personally think people need to not be such pussy-bitches and look me in the eye but meh. 

To avoid awkwardness, I look people in the eyebrows because to them it looks like I'm looking them in the eye. It stops the connection and makes people feel less uncomfortable...

For some reason children love it when I look them in the eye. It's funny, often older humans think I'm giving them a scary look but it's just because I've looked them in the eye for the first time.

As a plus, I'm quite expressive with my eyes when I don't want to speak, so if I want to say something without talking people always understand my looks. 

Anyways, back to my love of nice eyebrows- I suffered OCD when I was younger, I'm pretty much over it now but I'm still a bit of a perfectionist about some things, and when things are slightly out of place it can really bother me. Eyebrows are one of those things, so if someone with shitty eyebrows is talking to me, I spend the first couple of minutes rearranging their eyebrows in my head. Sad, I know but it's just automatic to me xD it's not even in a judgemental way, I don't think badly of a person with bad eyebrows, I just prefer nice eyebrows but respect whatever they want to do with them even if it's distracting to me. 

Ironically, I'm not that great at shaping my own brows but I can make them look good after getting them done. I find it easier to do eyebrows and make-up on others than on myself because I can visualise better with the face properly in front of me (I have weird vision that can't really be fixed with glasses because it's to do with how my brain processes the images). 

Last summer, I worked as an MUA and stylist for designer brands in department stores for a bit and it included fixing the bad brows, shitty foundation matches, and tailoring different looks for people- it was so satisfying correcting all of the abominations! 

I love make-up and style it's something I'll always appreciate when it's done well. Just like a person that goes to the gym a lot (or me, and many others) can appreciate nice muscles :3 

Anyways, take care and make sure your eyebrows are on fleek because with good eyebrows you can conquer a lot (Or suffer like me, but at least still have good eyebrows)! 

-Dalanda

xoxo

Happy Birthday Mr Marley!

I'm sure he's having a hell of a time wherever he is!

 Jah bless ❤️

Sometimes it's you that has to grant yourself peace of mind, and you can. 

Love and forgiveness are key in letting go of people and situations that wrong you- even more so if you don't feel like it. You can't change or improve people no matter how much you want to, because change is always up to the individual. 

You can however get away from those that hurt you, drain you, don't make the best decisions, etc and forgive- even if they can't be in your life anymore. 

Holding on to pain only hurts you, because if one hurts you and shows no remorse then A) they don't really care about you and B) it may be some time before they even comprehend their behaviour. Often people don't realise what they're doing to themselves and others when they spread negativity or treat others badly. 

Everyone grows and learns at their own pace, and sometimes you have to leave people behind. 

Don't fear it, accept it, forgive in your heart and try to move on to people that understand you and appreciate your worth.

After all, no one lives forever. We may as well make each day and the people we spend our time with worthwhile because it makes for better memories. 

It's far easier said than done, and it may be that you end up with no one but it's far better to be at peace alone, that pretending to be someone or something you're not and feeling drained by others. The closer they are, the more it hurts but then the more vital it is that you forgive and grow because it's far more painful to be hurt by someone who is supposed to be there for you. 

We are all far stronger than we think, as we've all survived our worst days and will continue to if we keep that strength in our hearts. 

I can't promise you'll be happier, but you'll have less to worry and hurt over which is a very good start!

Take care,

-Dalanda 

xoxo 

Me

Dreamer

David Love

Ticket to ride

The Beatles 

Amen Maya, Amen. 

Gone

Lianne La Havas

Happy Monday, and welcome to February!

Have a blessed week :-)

xoxo