"Just because someone desires you, does not mean they value you"

Saw this today on my tl, it's so true. People can desire you but not make any effort, not treat you how you deserve to be treated or mess you around. 

That's not right. They should never do that... people should make the effort to show you how amazing you are and make you feel good. Yes I use the word show because words mean nothing nowadays... Too often, words are misused, wasted or remain unsaid. Sincerity has been eroded... :-(

You've got to go the extra mile or TRY. If you care enough and if they matter enough to you that should be no problem. 

Act in the best interests of each other NOT just yourself and don't keep everything inside... 

If you're going to do something drastic, at least make it a mutual agreement so one isn't left in the dark or wondering, constantly questioning. That's an awful thing to do to someone. 

People in general should uplift you, and help you feel happier & more you- more confident. Not damage your self esteem which is what happens when you're treated badly or not appreciated and shown you're treasured or left pining. 

People often underestimate the destructive nature of emotions and you must NEVER mess with someones emotions for whatever reasons... Ever. The damage it causes could create problems that can take years to fix or more often than not never truly go away. You could destroy someone, just completely break them down like that. It sounds dramatic but it's true, I see it everyday. Look closely maybe you can see it too, in someone's eyes, in how people move, in the mirror.

Don't do it to someone, especially if it's someone you love, you don't upset or be dishonest to someone if you love someone it's hurtful & disrespectful. 

And don't stand for it either.

If you see or experience it, draw a line!