Thursday 31 October 2013


Happy Halloween!! :-)

I hope that you have a great time today whatever you do.

xxx

Tuesday 29 October 2013

Walk on the wild side...



RIP Lou, you legend.






You've got the words to change a nation
But you're biting your tongue

You've spent a life time stuck in silence
Afraid you'll say something wrong

If no one ever hears it how we gonna learn your song?
So come, on come on
Come on, come on
You've got a heart as loud as lions
So why let your voice be tamed?
Baby we're a little different
There's no need to be ashamed
You've got the light to fight the shadows
So stop hiding it away

Come on, Come on

Mr Brightside


This suddenly popped in my head so I decided to blog it... I left the lyrics so you can sing along with me ;-)

I'm coming out of my cage
And I've been doing just fine
Gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all

It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this?
It was only a kiss
It was only a kiss

Now I'm falling asleep
And she's calling a cab
While he's having a smoke
And she's taking a drag

Now they're going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it's all in my head

But she's touching his chest now
He takes off her dress now
Let me go

And I just can't look it's killing me
And taking control

Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis

But it's just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
Cause I'm Mr. Brightside

I'm coming out of my cage
And I've been doing just fine
Gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all

It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this?
It was only a kiss
It was only a kiss

Now I'm falling asleep
And she's calling a cab
While he's having a smoke
And she's taking a drag

Now they're going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it's all in my head

But she's touching his chest now
He takes off her dress now
Let me go

Cause I just can't look it's killing me
And taking control

Cause I just can't look it's killing me
And taking control

Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis

But it's just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
Cause I'm Mr. Brightside

I never
I never
I never
I never





"It's tricky because society has made the male gender think they're not the ideal man if they show emotion. When it's actually the opposite. No one like a cold hearted asshole, or someone who seems to be into you but not making a move." -E.S

Amen. It's the worst thing ever when a guy does that, but ladies, if a man can't even show you emotion or he isn't asking you out despite him liking you, simply move on to someone that will, you're gorgeous. You don't deserve someone that won't even bother to talk to you. Know your worth.

Men, GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS. Seriously, if you think she's gorgeous & you feel she's perfect for you, chances are... She is. But if you wait around for this mythical 'perfect time' or start making excuses for yourself, she'll simply find someone else that actually talks to her & shows her some regard sometimes without even knowing you exist (yep, there are some men out there that will like a girl & admire her from afar without making any moves whatsoever) Yes ladies, don't roll your eyes I'm being deadly serious, I know a man that does this, but I digress...

What if they're 'the one' and you've just not bothered? Before you argue if they're 'the one' then fate will bring you together when the time is right, well, has fate not already done that as you're now aware of their existence and have a means of contact with them? Fate brings about opportunities... However, 'you can bring a horse to the waterside, but you can't force it to drink'. It can present you with these golden opportunities to do something huge like interact with your soulmate or for you to meet a great friend in your life, but it won't open your mouth, or a laptop/phone and get you to act on the opportunity will it? That's up to you and if you keep ignoring it, you'll just be left with pain or suffering. Fate needs a little nudge sometimes and if you don't follow it,  your heart will go back to whatever or whoever it is you want most and your mind and heart won't rest. 

Do you not think its really unfair on the girl too? What if she likes you back, or she's in need of your love? Fate presents things at the right time for you to act upon them, but if you don't, you'll only cause suffering for the both of you. Not so much you but think of the other person involved, if you love someone, don't hurt them or leave them alone, share your love and be there for them. It's not that hard to share love, it's a universal language. 

You mightn't think it's the right time, but if the opportunity has been presented to you, then it is. Nothing in life is easy and nothing good ever came without a bit of suffering first. It's just how life is, but do yourself a favour and don't deny others of happiness or your awesome love/ company. 

Make a move, dear. 

Yours,

Dalanda ❤ xoxo
It's you that breaks your own heart. 





Yet in life, you continuously ignore that instinct or that strong urge, and for what? Seriously, WHAT? Take a step back away from your ego, fear, pessimism, mistrust or whatever other bullshit  you feel is holding you back (though your only obstacle is yourself)  and look at the grand scheme of things. Sometimes, people forget that they're human beings and that others can see them that way too. It's not everyone that sees you for what and not who you are. Yet you hold this fear, let doubt creep in and you lose what should be yours. You lose what God has directed you towards and what your heart cries out for most. Opportunities don't last forever and sometimes, you must create them. If this has brought a situation to mind, then it's your cue to act on it or else, you won't find peace because its something you need to sort out not just for you but for others too. 

Get it. It's perfect for you. 

- A.A. D xxx


Javier Pérez - En Puntas





Dancer: Amélie Ségarra

"Pérez reveals the weaknesses that become the boundaries between seemingly irreconcilable concepts such as: beauty and cruelty, fragility and violence, culture and nature or life and death."

Breathtaking...

Friday 25 October 2013

I don't think someone will totally love and accept me for who or what I am.

But I can't change and I won't, even if that means that I'll spend my life having no one understand me, or care to. I shan't sacrifice who I truly am.

If they did, they're gone, or they never stuck around long enough to find out who I truly am... Too many excuses- crap ones at that as I believe if you truly want to do something, you'll find a way and if not... an excuse. Heck, some even make excuses for their excuses and they wait... but for what? There's no such thing as a right time for anything because you just have to do it. But if you don't it's cause you don't want to, and you think maybe something might not be right with what you see, but you watch and do nothing; which to me makes no sense... I mean do something or just leave me be. I won't be around forever for you.

I can watch things through jaded eyes for the rest of my life, and somehow... I just feel really apathetic about it. I have to. Where's my other option?

Whatever that doesn't matter, I'll spread love regardless of how I feel inside. I have to, no one else should feel like this and I'll be glad to spend my life making sure that's the case too.
“I’m good at loving books. I’m good at
loving soft bed sheets. I’m good at loving
coffees and teas. I am good at loving
things that can’t love me back, that don’t
have the power to leave. And maybe,
that’s why I love them.”
— B.C.


LOL, omg I love her!



This is brilliant! And slightly funnier as that's exactly what I'm like when I'm pissed off too... My friend showed it to my like OMG DALANDA, I FOUND YOUR AMERICAN COUNTERPART!

*sigh* I love it!



Urgh...


Notice me
Take my hand
Why are we
Strangers when
Our love is strong
Why carry on without me?

Everytime I try to fly
I fall without my wings
I feel so small
I guess I need you baby
And everytime I see you in my dreams
I see your face, it's haunting me
I guess I need you baby

I make believe
That you are here
It's the only way
I see clear
What have I done
You seem to move on easy

And everytime I try to fly
I fall without my wings
I feel so small
I guess I need you baby
And everytime I see you in my dreams
I see your face, you're haunting me
I guess I need you baby

I may have made it rain
Please forgive me
My weakness caused you pain
And this song is my sorry

At night I pray
That soon your face
Will fade away

And everytime I try to fly
I fall without my wings
I feel so small
I guess I need you baby
And everytime I see you in my dreams
I see your face, you're haunting me
I guess I need you baby



Brb, dying of cuteness.

Omg! I want one! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤


Awwwwwwwwhhhhhhhhhhh! *___*