Follow your soul, your feelings and what it whispers to you. I really don't understand how people can completley shut off or repress their feelings about something when their soul is screaming at them to do it. There is absolutley nothing more detrimental to you (and possibly others) than you ignoring your own hearts desires- they're there for a reason, you can't just ignore them and shut them off and either hope they go away or just wait cause you feel inadequate or scared or like it didn't work last time so why should it work this time or whatever other bullshitty excuses you've allowed your mind to come up with.

Your soul won't ever lead you on the wrong path ever and that I can promise you. What will lead you on the wrong path is repressing your feelings, ignoring your instincts and going against your gut instinct or whatever strong, overwhelming (possibly reccuring) emotion is telling you to do whether it be talk to that person, move jobs, move country, travel or whatever. There's a reason you feel that way and it should not be ignored, you should follow it not try and rationalise it and find reasons to prove yourself wrong. (Which is essentially what you're doing if you're ignoring your immediate feelings and finding excuses or reasons as to why what you're feeling isn't correct even though the heart is pure and the soul never lies)

I honestly don't think you can point out a time which you've followed your soul or hearts desires and gone wrong, because following them is the gateway to making your dreams come true. And if you follow your soul and it doesn't go how you want it to, there's always a valuable lesson or something else falls into place and your soul led you on that path for a reason.

If you're repressing emotions for God's sakes stop it and have the courage to persue your dreams and what makes your heart sing no matter whatever or whoever that might be. I've said it before and I'll say it again "Regret is always more painful than failiure". Don't hurt yourself by not doing or persuing what makes you happy our what you feel your soul is telling you to do. 

Do something. NOW, and when it all falls into place and  your dreams come true you can thank me later. 

Feelings are there for a reason, don't ignore them or repress them, give in to yourself.

Yours,

-Dalanda xxx 

P.S- If something came to mind or something pulled at your heart when you were reading this, then it's a sign you need to follow your feelings and persue whatever it is that popped into your mind and made you feel that way. Now. Don't waste time, opportunities don't last forever.