Don't project your negativity on people, especially those that want to share the light. We are human beings, everyone can be cruel but if someone wants to be kind you shouldn't trick them with your own insecurities. 

There is no need to play devil's advocate with your relationships because embracing people and being kinder is the only step actually that needs to be taken. Adding anything else is a recipie for disaster because like they say, 'if you keep knocking at the devil's door, someone is going to answer you'. If you're looking for things to trip you up, you'll walk off of your nice path and into a self-imposed downward spiral with no one to blame. 

There's no such thing as too good to be true when it comes to people, because every single person is unique with unique gifts and it can be amazing when you meet people you have a connection with. You should trust yourself in your dealings with yourself and others to know that if there was something truly bad you'd sense it and your true self would be repelled, not scared because fear is energy manipulation. This is why it's not real. 

Fear can put up one of the greatest barriers between two which is misunderstanding and once that's up, there's no point till an effort to understand each other is made. You can be the loveliest person to someone but if they want you to be bad then all they will see is bad, all they will do is try and make you fit into the negativity they've created in your head. 

 Remember how you view the world is a reflection of yourself, and you should have faith in people instead of thinking they'll be as horrible to you as you can be to yourself. If you don't trust yourself and others, you could end up alone and hating yourself which is no way to live your life when there are people out there that are kind and don't want to see you suffer. 

There is good, but good people from the perception of someone plagued by negativity is far worse than straight up evil. This is because you'll have kindness and on the other hand you'll have bastardisations of it being projected most onto the one that tried to fix it. It's bad for the negative person too because it's doubt that creates misunderstanding and often people are actually seeking out the good things they run from. We can create a living hell for ourselves just based on shoddy perceptions. 

 I'm hyper-sensitive to energies and have always been, but it can get hard to deal with because often I pick up on insecurities as that's what people often focus the most energies onto when it comes to themselves. I find it sad because it's not how I see them but people take themselves far too seriously so I always try to look for the light in people. However just because I see it doesn't mean they acknowledge it and some inner monologues can be hard to hear, and it's why I distract myself with music when I'm out and about because it's something I can completely zone out and engage with.

However you can still pick up on some very painful things and this is why I realised the hard way that healthy boundaries and where you put your trust just as important as raising people up. Just because you can see the light in someone (and I have the gift and sometimes curse of being able to see it in everyone) and what they could be, doesn't mean that's what they are or what they want to be in that moment. I've been attacked very badly energetically and physically from just trying to help people recognise light in themselves because of their own self-doubt. I wrote a lot about healing because I needed it to stop, and I needed to start trusting myself.

If you could see and sense people the way I do (which you could if you cared to try), and the damage negativity does you'd never want to be mean to anyone ever and that's from the heart. I know from experience it can and does make you physically and mentally sick. That's why I focus so much on being kind, it's so painful and damaging not to be, but people just ignore it because it takes courage to feel. That for me is proof that people can be and are sensitive but they choose not to be and modern society ignores kindness because it doesn't make the kind of selfish profits. What's sad is people seemingly get away with it, but I personally don't see the fun in cheating yourself out of true happiness. It is what you do when you give in to doubt, but few people will admit it to themselves like that because we're told to never make mistakes. We all do, especially when we are being misguided. 

I try my best and we all should because you don't know who you're dealing with-there are more mentally ill and suicidal people out there than you would think. Everyone just wants to be happy and that's a fact of all souls, and why people are so risk-aversive. We needn't be, we should just be less guarded but to trust takes more balls than throwing things away and holding on to a negative status quo (for some). 

 You find what whatever you look for in life, but your journey and results vary based on your mindset. Teach them with kindness is a legitimate thing but make sure you come with understanding too and you can start with trusting yourself and your ability to sense things. 

When there is good in your life, trust in it. The truly difficult act in life is going against your true self and true friends and you don't need to. You've never needed to. 

The caution you should take in life, is to not follow the negativity. We all know what's right or wrong, it's whether we listen and act on it and that all comes down to you. 

Bright blessings,

-Dalanda 

xoxo