So, my brother came over in the easter holidays to insult me a bit and eat some good food. xD And this picture is about as close as he'd let me get to giving him a kiss on the cheek. :-(

I'm all like LET ME LOVE YOU and he's like, go away I'm playing Fifa xD he won't even give me a hug (how lame!!) at least my other brother can admit to "being happy to see his little sister!" Gehehehe *happy face*

Till next time!

Love,

Dalanda :-) xxx

P.s- yes, I know, my pajamas are epic.

Hello gorgeous!

So, a friend of mine went to Holland and got me some spikey earings that are pretty cool, so I decided they should take pride of place on my ears, and also on my blog! :P

I would of posted my whole face, but wind... Just... No.

Last time I was out in the wind this happened (Well, this pic is from January, the wind is more vicious now.. In April. ¬_¬)

Gah, I think I'm gonna do something with my hair this weekend, seeing as it's my birthday on the 25'th and I want a new look cause... I fancy a change. Probably to a different shade of red, I'll keep you posted!

Um...

Psyyyyyy!!! Man, he's such a guilty pleasure!! 

Okay this post is getting a little erratic, so I'm gonna stop now before I start posting pictures of goats or something... (I'll save that for one of my next posts ;-D) Bleh, I'm drained in everyway possible... I need sleep and a massage before any more weird stuff comes out of my fingers haha!

Alright guys, till next time!

Love,

Dee xxx

P.S- Some people have said they can't comment cause you need an account or something like that... I've no idea how to fix/change this but if you want to tell/ask me anything about what you've seen on the blog, or just in general, you can do so on http://ask.fm/dee2504 (you don't need an account) perhaps one day I'll make a blog email address, we'll see.

Thank you all for reading, it means a lot. :-* virtual cuddles to you all x

Sexual Healing

Hey beauts,

So, you guys probably know the original song by the late Marvin Gaye, and I want to show you this cover by singer Ben Harper. It's actually just EARGASMIC! <3>

Have a listen, I'm sure you agree, I'm seriously melting! *swoon*

Till next time,

Love, 

Dalanda :-) xoxoxo

  
"If you're not careful, the newspapers will have you hating the people who are being oppressed, and loving the people who are doing the oppressing." - Malcolm X

Just one example of the crap that actually goes to print in this country... As you can see, The Economist have got it very wrong. But eh, what can you expect, Newspapers usually do, the media is so powerful and it brainwashes the minds of millions of us on a daily basis through advertisments, the news and even childrens programmes. As Banksy brilliantly put it: 

"People are taking the piss out of you everyday. They butt into your life, take a cheap shot at you and then disappear. They leer at you from tall buildings and make you feel small. They make flippant comments from buses that imply you’re not sexy enough and that all the fun is happening somewhere else. They are on TV making your girlfriend feel inadequate. They have access to the most sophisticated technology the world has ever seen and they bully you with it. They are The Advertisers and they are laughing at you.


 You, however, are forbidden to touch them. Trademarks, intellectual property rights and copyright law mean advertisers can say what they like wherever they like with total impunity.
  

Fuck that. Any advert in a public space that gives you no choice whether you see it or not is yours. It’s yours to take, re-arrange and re-use. You can do whatever you like with it. Asking for permission is like asking to keep a rock someone just threw at your head.

You owe the companies nothing. Less than nothing, you especially don’t owe them any courtesy. They owe you. They have re-arranged the world to put themselves in front of you. They never asked for your permission, don’t even start asking for theirs.

(Banksy is an anonymous grafiti artist from the UK that makes strong political and social comments through his art)

It's sad how we're all conditioned in a way that we accept everything we hear/read/see from the media as Gospel, no one does their research.... we hear crap from the news, the 'famous' people, the advertisments,  and we read it on the newspapers; rarely are the things we see or read ever questioned. Because of this, they are able to control how we think, act and behave and most of the time, and we don't even realise it. No matter how stupid some of this things are mass amounts of people are like Oooh wow, Kanye west wears on shutter shades, let's all go out and buy them despite that fact that it's really hard to see from them and I look like a numpty; ooooh, loads of these celebrities have eyebrows that don't even look like hair anymore, let me just shave mine off and paint them back on again!

No, just... No. Where are the people with their own minds, own opinions and own styles? Where are the people that stand up for what they believe in and don't believe everything they hear from the media? Sadly, they're a dwindling number, and if they try to make a big change, the media will more often than not silence them so please people, make your own mind up.

Till next time,

Love,

Dalanda! :-) xxx

Ladies,

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. 

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary...

not supplementary. 

Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts... ❤

-Oprah Winfrey 

So true... Nothing more to add to that really.

Till next time,

Love,

Dalanda xxx

HAHAHAHA! Why are the German cartoons so weird, i'm crying! :'D

Till next time,

Love,

Dee xxxx