"It's tricky because society has made the male gender think they're not the ideal man if they show emotion. When it's actually the opposite. No one like a cold hearted asshole, or someone who seems to be into you but not making a move." -E.S

Amen. It's the worst thing ever when a guy does that, but ladies, if a man can't even show you emotion or he isn't asking you out despite him liking you, simply move on to someone that will, you're gorgeous. You don't deserve someone that won't even bother to talk to you. Know your worth.

Men, GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS. Seriously, if you think she's gorgeous & you feel she's perfect for you, chances are... She is. But if you wait around for this mythical 'perfect time' or start making excuses for yourself, she'll simply find someone else that actually talks to her & shows her some regard sometimes without even knowing you exist (yep, there are some men out there that will like a girl & admire her from afar without making any moves whatsoever) Yes ladies, don't roll your eyes I'm being deadly serious, I know a man that does this, but I digress...

What if they're 'the one' and you've just not bothered? Before you argue if they're 'the one' then fate will bring you together when the time is right, well, has fate not already done that as you're now aware of their existence and have a means of contact with them? Fate brings about opportunities... However, 'you can bring a horse to the waterside, but you can't force it to drink'. It can present you with these golden opportunities to do something huge like interact with your soulmate or for you to meet a great friend in your life, but it won't open your mouth, or a laptop/phone and get you to act on the opportunity will it? That's up to you and if you keep ignoring it, you'll just be left with pain or suffering. Fate needs a little nudge sometimes and if you don't follow it,  your heart will go back to whatever or whoever it is you want most and your mind and heart won't rest. 

Do you not think its really unfair on the girl too? What if she likes you back, or she's in need of your love? Fate presents things at the right time for you to act upon them, but if you don't, you'll only cause suffering for the both of you. Not so much you but think of the other person involved, if you love someone, don't hurt them or leave them alone, share your love and be there for them. It's not that hard to share love, it's a universal language. 

You mightn't think it's the right time, but if the opportunity has been presented to you, then it is. Nothing in life is easy and nothing good ever came without a bit of suffering first. It's just how life is, but do yourself a favour and don't deny others of happiness or your awesome love/ company. 

Make a move, dear. 

Yours,

Dalanda ❤ xoxo