Sometimes it's you that has to grant yourself peace of mind, and you can. 

Love and forgiveness are key in letting go of people and situations that wrong you- even more so if you don't feel like it. You can't change or improve people no matter how much you want to, because change is always up to the individual. 

You can however get away from those that hurt you, drain you, don't make the best decisions, etc and forgive- even if they can't be in your life anymore. 

Holding on to pain only hurts you, because if one hurts you and shows no remorse then A) they don't really care about you and B) it may be some time before they even comprehend their behaviour. Often people don't realise what they're doing to themselves and others when they spread negativity or treat others badly. 

Everyone grows and learns at their own pace, and sometimes you have to leave people behind. 

Don't fear it, accept it, forgive in your heart and try to move on to people that understand you and appreciate your worth.

After all, no one lives forever. We may as well make each day and the people we spend our time with worthwhile because it makes for better memories. 

It's far easier said than done, and it may be that you end up with no one but it's far better to be at peace alone, that pretending to be someone or something you're not and feeling drained by others. The closer they are, the more it hurts but then the more vital it is that you forgive and grow because it's far more painful to be hurt by someone who is supposed to be there for you. 

We are all far stronger than we think, as we've all survived our worst days and will continue to if we keep that strength in our hearts. 

I can't promise you'll be happier, but you'll have less to worry and hurt over which is a very good start!

Take care,

-Dalanda 

xoxo