In life, there are very few things I absolutely just can't fathom... I can see why but I just don't get it. I can't understand some forms of behaviour. 

One is playing games or manipulating people, making them feel like crap... Because it gives some people a sense of power. 

It's seriously the dumbest shit I've ever heard in my life- and I've had a conversation with a crackhead. Why?Because making people feel small to feel or act big... It's just a sign of weakness, it's insecurity & a disgusting thing to do to anyone. How would they feel if it was done to their mother, or father, or sibling or best friend? How would you feel watching them being manipulated by someone toxic into a broken shadow of their former self. It's not nice. 

I may be preaching to the choir here though because these people lack empathy completely. If they had any they wouldn't treat people so. They would know it's painful and damaging. And knocking others down to build up one's fragile, insecure and broken ego is stupid and cowardly and anyone that lives like that needs total life reanalyasis. 

It's not normal, it's sick and it's fucking stupid. Grow up. It's not primary school anymore where you pick on the different vulnerable kids to feel powerful and make everyone pretend to like you or downright fear you. It's real life and it's not right to bully, manipulate or knowingly make people feel like shit so if you are, just for the love of God, stop. If you have to put others down to bring yourself up you're doing this whole decent human being thing wrong, and you can expect se nasty karma. Pull yourself together. Show some real courage that you can actually be respected for by yourself and others for.

If you're empathetic, not an arsehole and don't need to make other people feel small to validate yourself, go you!! Keep at it :-)

Love,

-Dalanda

Xoxo