The aforementioned post I wrote some days ago... 

Seriously. 

And being the one that is honest will not make you popular because the truth isn't always pleasant but it usually gets you the right people. The ones that turned their back on you because of your honesty will remember you in their quiet moments when things go wrong because of their arrogance. 

There are 'yes' people that either go along with everything you say or don't tell you when you're fucking up. All this does is lead you to make/continue to make bad decisions and ruin things for yourself as they go on happy because the world is still turning for them, they still live their life, have their things, get paid and whatever. 

You need to cut those kinds people off if you want to progress to the person/place you want to be. No company is better than bad company, you can uplift yourself instead of being drained by others or around fake people that tell you what you want to hear instead of what you need to hear. 

If co-dependency or something like similar is your issue maybe sort that first  instead of having people that are feeding your insecurities. 

Use your head and use your heart. You know when situations aren't good for you and when you're giving too much or being used instinctively. You need to find the strength to say enough is enough. 

Be wise,

-Dalanda

xoxo